ASK COCO

Ask Coco?…

 Sometimes thing don’t always go according to plan or we are faced with dilemmas however small or big. Email me at AWKWARDCOCO@HOTMAIL.COM 
  and I will do my best to give you advice on how to deal with any dilemmas or issues you are facing. Even if you do not want to email you may find there is a dilemma here that relates directly you and hopefully you can apply the advice to yourself. 
   
Love Coco x


Q:
How do I let my boyfriend know that I really do love him? I try so hard and it always seems like I am getting nowhere. He says that I don’t give him enough attention and push him away from me all the time. I don’t see how he thinks that. I love him so much and see him as not only my boyfriend but my bestfriend, and he says the same thing to me. I have a lot of stresses in my life right now and I really need someone to comfort me. He seems to think that I am taking everything out on him and I don’t feel like I am. What should I do?

A:
You both seem insecure with each other. The sooner you both have an honest chat about your feelings, the sooner your relationship can move on to the next stage: mutual trust. You need to open up to him as he is your best friend, tell him about your problems and let him comfort you. Don’t close him out.



Q:
Things are way too hectic for me right now cause I’m doing too many things at once. I am currently doing a degree that I hate and I know it should be the top priority of my list but I can’t motivate myself to do it as I don’t like it and in the end my result is not going to be proof of my true ability. Is it worth doing another degree that I will enjoy or just get on with life?

A:
You should definitely look into other courses you think you may be interested in as it is possible to change it in time for September. But at the same time you need to think about whether studying is really for you. If you choose another subject what’s to say you won’t end up disinterested again? On the other hand if you know there’s something you really want to do at university and that it will lead to something else you really want to do then go for it. You have a lot of thinking to do. In the meanwhile, all is not lost. See what you can you do in your current degree by working as hard as you can over the coming weeks…you never know, you may just surprise yourself. Good luck in your exams!